Being comfortable

I think the most important factor in establishing a relationship with the opposite sex is how comfortable you are with her. I’m talking about how most guys focus on impressing woman more than really understanding her and knowing her views on things.

If you’re peacocking to have a relationship with the woman you really like and not just to pick up a random woman from a club, there’s something you have to remember. Women decide that they like a man based on the connection they feel with them. And they base this connection or chemistry from the number of things they have in common.

To get a woman to really like you, you have to get her to talk about the things that she’s interested in and from there, establish a meaningful conversation. If you’ve managed to talk to her because of your peacocking, then good for you.

There is an issue about “being comfortable” here, because before a can get comfortable with you, you have to be comfortable with yourself first. And if your peacocking outfit and accessories are not fit to your personality, you’re headed downhill my friend.

One piece of advice for the good guys who must not be drawn to the evils of peacocking, if you want to try peacocking, keep in mind your goal which is to get the woman you like to really like you back for yourself, and not for a rare necklace or jacket you’re wearing.

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