In a relationship, to get things going (if you know what I mean), it’s all about seduction. Seduction isn’t at all bad or wrong, or immoral. It’s actually essential in a relationship, and all species, even animals and insects are masters of seduction in their own way. Peacocking for instance, is an example of a seduction technique, but it all has to do about form and visual appeal than actually making a move. Nevertheless, seduction plays an important part in a relationship, whether it’s only beginning to bloom, in the peak of excitement, or even when you’re already well adjusted and just want to keep the fire burning.
But for those who are just starting their game and want to win their way to the woman they want, below are certain things for you to consider before going out there and playing the game. These should be able to help you seduce her and win her over.
1. Before even approaching her, don’t think about your past rejection and don’t let it scare you. Don’t be scared and expect rejection, because if you worry too much, it just might happen anyway.
2. The next time you see her, strike up a short conversation and ask for her number. She might be taken aback, but she will be so impressed with the boldness of the demand that she will give in. Just make sure you don’t sound like you’re asking for ransom.
3. Show her that you understand her—even if sometimes you don’t—and let her feel that you would be great as a partner. Look her deep in the eyes when you’re talking with her.
4. The ambiance has a lot to do with seducing a woman. If you’re finally on your date, don’t choose a place that’s too bright or too dull.
5. Let her know and feel that you’re interested in her, not just sex. It actually turns women on when someone acts too gentlemanly and respects her. Trust me, you would seem too adorable for her to resist.
6. Don’t forget the sense of humor. Nice manners and a sense of humor? You’re a sure winner.
7. It’s ok to touch her, but nothing offensive. Holding her hands or caressing her shoulders is acceptable, as long as you see from her reaction that it’s ok. Hey, if it turns out great, maybe she would be the one to make the next move.
8. Tease her. As I’ve said, women are turned on more and are attracted more to guys who show that they want her but are not making too much effort because they’re afraid the woman might be offended. It raises the frustration level of the women and this will make them make their move. If they do, then you’re successful.
These tips are just compilations of things that my friends and I already experienced. It could not work for everyone, but I assure you it has a high success rate.