In a relationship, it’s always been said that trust and honesty is the key to make it grow healthier. But honestly speaking, do you always appreciate everything your boyfriend tells you, especially comments such as, “honey you’re getting a little fat”? Honestly, I do sometimes, but there are also times when I want to be motivated and comforted instead of told the truth. Boyfriends exist to tell us girls that we look gorgeous no matter how bad feel about ourselves, that we never get fat, and that we are the most adorable creatures in the world. If we wanted someone to criticize our body or outfits, we’d call our mother up.
So for all of those boys who are in a relationship right now, you better avoid saying these phrases if you want to stay in that relationship.
She’s getting fat:
Women are intelligent creatures and mostly confident about themselves, but believe me there is no greater confidence buster than her boyfriend telling her she’s getting fat. It’s like telling her, “you need to lose weight you pig!” No matter how gently you tell her, it sounds the same. If she asks, the answer is always no.
Your mother would have done things this way and that:
Women are independent, and we have all been raised differently by our parents. it’s understandable that everyone loves their mother, but it’s an insult to the other person if you tell her your mother would’ve done it this way and blah and would’ve resulted to better things. Even if it’s not your girlfriend, you should never compare mothers, or anyone for that matter.
You’re reminded about your ex in a special moment:
Never tell her your ex reminded you of the dessert you had on your date, or the places you’ve been during the weekends. It’s very unethical to tell your girlfriend while you’re on a date that you suddenly remembered your ex because of something. It only shows that you’re still thinking about your ex and you think it’s important enough to mention it to your current girlfriend.
Never compare you girlfriend to your ex, even if it’s in favor of your current girlfriend. It’s a mortal sin to mention your girlfriend’s name and your ex’s name in the same sentence.
Ask her to relax when she is very angry:
It will piss her more if you tell her to relax when she’s really upset, angry, and shouting. By telling her to relax, she’s interpreting it as you’re not taking her seriously. So just let her blow of her steam then give her a hug and say sorry, especially if you’re the reason she got upset in the first place.
You are insecure:
Women don’t like sissies. It’s enough that they are insecure and needy sometimes, but it would be unthinkable that they would want to go out with someone insecure about them. Women like men who are confident and someone they could lean on. Not the other way around.
These are just a few of the things you should never, ever tell your girlfriend. Truth is relative nowadays, and if you think certain truths will result to no good at all, it’s best to leave it unspoken, especially if not saying it will make your relationship grow healthier and stronger.